Arrogance? Or just self-protection?
A little taster:
"One side of the story is arrogance. The other side is pain and fear. But both sides are true. For me the question is: can you get through pain and fear without arrogance as a young person? And how?"
Follow up: Read what I wrote here to a 20 year old TCK about how to get over the grief and pain and fear he feels right now. This three part series was sparked by his email to me after reading the arrogance articles.