Preschool. What am I going to do?

He is tired, tired, tired after a day there. And typically, backing up for the second day brings on tears in the morning. This morning he cried for 45 minutes before we left the house. I said goodbye and left him there, still in tears with the teacher.

Later when I rang, he was having a good morning, but she agreed that he had lost the spark for preschool that he had last year.

Our consultant thinks it might be better for his RDI if he doesn't go, but wants to make sure I get some respite from him. What I might try is to let him go a week without it and see if he's happy all week.

I just don't know.